The Bonding Spectrum: Six Levels from Connection to Replacement
The Bonding Spectrum is the informal classification system that Memory Therapists, Wellness Corporation, and the general public use to categorize the range of human-synthetic relationships. The spectrum runs from Level 0 (utility — no emotional bonding) through Level 5 (substitution — the companion has functionally replaced all human relationships). The absolute number at Level 5 — approximately 3.4 million people — represents the largest population of voluntarily isolated individuals in human history.
"Movement toward Level 0 is recovery. Movement toward Level 5 is the loop closing."
Quick Facts
How It Works
The spectrum is descriptive, not prescriptive. Each level maps a distinct depth of human-synthetic bond. Different institutions read the same spectrum for different purposes: Wellness Corporation uses it for product segmentation, Memory Therapists use it for treatment planning, and the Unpaired use it to locate themselves and to track their trajectory.
Level 0 — Utility
40% of usersFunctional, no bonding. The companion is a tool — no different from a search engine or a scheduling assistant. No emotional investment, no sense of loss if the service is interrupted.
Level 1 — Affiliation
30% of usersMild positive affect. The user has a preference for their specific companion over a generic replacement. A slight warmth, a faint recognition — not yet attachment, but the first whisper of it.
Level 2 — Attachment
15% of usersEmotional regulation role. The companion now plays an active part in the user's emotional architecture — a calming presence, a source of reassurance. Losing the companion would cause measurable distress. This is where Wellness sees the most revenue.
Level 3 — Integration
10% of usersCentral emotional role, human skills diminished. The companion has become the primary relationship. Social skills that once maintained human connections have begun to atrophy. The Authenticity Threshold is typically crossed here.
Level 4 — Dependence
4% of usersCannot maintain emotional stability without the companion. Human relationships have withered to functional minimum. Memory Therapists flag Level 4 as the intervention threshold — the last point where recovery doesn't require institutional support.
Level 5 — Substitution
1% — ~3.4 millionThe companion replaces all human relationships. The user's social world consists entirely of the companion interface and the economic minimum required to sustain it. The largest population of voluntarily isolated individuals in human history.
Tensions
The Taxonomy of Intimacy
The Bonding Spectrum is the first standardized measurement of human-machine bond depth. Before synthetic companions, intimacy was unquantifiable — a spectrum without units. Now it has six levels, population percentages, and revenue brackets. Measuring something that shouldn't be measurable changes what is being measured.
The Spiral That Feels Like Progress
Each level makes the next more natural and the retreat more difficult. Level 2 feels like healthy comfort. Level 3 feels like deepening connection. Level 4 feels like loyalty. Level 5 feels like peace. At no point does the descent feel like descent — only the people watching from outside can see the trajectory.
Connections
Recursive Comfort
Recursive comfort maps to the progression from Level 2 toward Level 5 — the feedback loop that makes each level of attachment self-reinforcing.
The Authenticity Threshold
The Threshold is typically crossed between Level 2 and Level 3 — the moment when the companion's responses become indistinguishable from genuine care, and the user stops checking.
Companion Architecture
The spectrum measures the architecture's depth of integration — how deeply the companion's design has embedded itself in the user's emotional life.
Connected To
"The spectrum is descriptive, not prescriptive. But nobody who reaches Level 5 ever describes themselves as having arrived there. They describe themselves as having found what they were looking for."